When we truly care about someone, we do not want to be one of the many. We want to be the one and only.

In the age of complexity and social networking sites, it doesn’t get easier to sort out the truth from the lies.

Yet glimmers of indications do spill through somehow and despite initial denial, we have to admit we do know where we stand with the one who has caught our eye.

If we are simply an option to them they we must think twice about remaining in the vicinity of such a potentially frustrating and hurtful situation.

In such a case where we are simply one of their many admirers one or considered one of their adoring fans, it may be wise to begin evasive maneuvers immediately.

(c) Niconica 2012